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Finding Honest Russian Marriage Agencies

Monday, July 13th, 2009
Irina Chernova asked:

Finding an honest agency is a huge help in this process. However, you should know that most of these places, especially the agencies that are based in the FSU, are only interested in separating you from your money. The advice in this chapter will save you much confusion, money and heartache. It is too bad that more Russian women and Ukrainian women do not advertise themselves independently. However, without having an internet connection of their own and with only limited knowledge of English the agency alternative is their most realistic choice. Also, many of these ladies are not aware of how many of these places are only interested in cheating their male clients.

There are a few large US-based agencies dealing with potential Russian brides (or Ukrainian brides). Most of these places are honest businesses and run fairly well. However, they have to cooperate with local agencies within the cities of the FSU. Unfortunately, the big agency may be honest, but the local one may not be so upright. It is important to test all of these agencies before deciding to trust them.

Fire up your internet browser and find a big list of Russian women marriage agencies. You may even find some more general internet dating sites which advertise Russian or Ukrainian women. I seriously suggest that you avoid the general dating sites. They are just not specific enough. Once you have a list of some possible agencies, first compare them to your target area. If you have decided to visit (eventually) Vinnitsa, Ukraine for example, it makes no sense to consider an agency that located 1,000 miles away! After going through this first step you should have a list of several agencies to consider. By this point you have also probably looked through the pictures on these sites. It is normal, but I suggest you not allow the pictures to make your decision for you. Start by giving each website a good general once over. It should have a nice clean look to it. Try to figure out how many profiles they have listed. It should be said that a smaller city may not be able to support a huge number of women’s profiles. However, there should be a sufficient number to give you a good chance of success. If there are any less than 100 women in the age group you are seeking I would run away. Or at least approach that agency with extreme caution (and maybe use another one as your primary source). Does the site appear to be updated regularly? Are outdated profiles removed? You can determine this by looking at the ID numbers. If everything is in strict numeric or alpha-numeric order this is probably not the case. Of course, this method is not always reliable, but it is the best method available to you. You really want the agency to have a physical address listed and an actual phone number. This phone number should be one that works and when you call you actually reach someone in the office. Someone who can speak at least a bit of English. You also want a clear price list and real-time credit card processing. This is very expensive and difficult to get in the FSU. Most scam agencies will simply request you send your money either directly to their bank account or via Western Union. The women should be required to register in person. Of course, this information may not be listed—you may have to send an email and ask this question. I suggest you be a little coy with your questioning. Ask how they know the women are really single and looking for a partner instead of asking if they have to come register in person. The only real way an agency can verify this information is to examine her passport. The next question can be whether or not they look at her passport and other documents in person or if scanned copies are accepted. Finally, you should be able to exchange or obtain full contact details of each woman you are interested in. If you are not able to purchase her physical address and phone number, then at the very least this should not be prohibited in your letters. Many agencies want to be the only point of contact and will not let you get the woman’s full contact details. You need to be able to contact the woman on your own, without the agencies help at all. If you feel like there is no way to get her direct (and complete) contact info, you may want to consider not using this agency. However, if they provide a 3-way calling service (where an interpreter is on the phone with you and your lady), you can call, ask for her phone number then hang up and call her back on your own. Of course, let her know beforehand this is how the call will progress!

It should also be said that even if one or two of these factors are missing, you still may be dealing with a basically honest agency. For example, maybe the agency does require local women to register in person. However, perhaps they also accept a few ladies from out of town. In this case, they will take a scanned copy of her documents. I would just be a little extra careful in dealing with those women from out of town.

After this initial step, some specific questions may have come to your mind. You may also be looking at several agencies that you feel are worth further consideration. So, take your questions and email them. The speed at which they respond will also tell you something. How thorough they are in answering your questions will give you more information. The quality of the English writing will also give you some idea of how good their translations will be. Of course, it may not necessarily be written by an interpreter but still should tell you something about how the agency operates. Which agencies give you a good feeling? Which do you think you would enjoy working with? Ask for some recommendations of some of there male clients. If they refuse to give you any…it may be because they don’t have any! Will you be dealing directly with the owner or office manager, or some other employee? You may also want to ask how many people they have working in the office and what each person does. This will give you a general feel to their operation and also give you a contact name if you have a question or any kind of difficulty in the future. It will also make everything more personal. You will (hopefully) become a person to them, not just a name or a number. This is very important for other reasons as well–namely, they will think you are more serious and more likely to actually make a trip to visit some of their Russian women and/or Ukrainian women.

The next step is to do some further investigating on your own. Search through some of the Russian women (RW) message boards to see if there is any information mentioned at all about any of the agencies you are considering. Bear in mind that many of these places end up being where people who have issues or axes to grind go to vent. Or to start arguments with others. So, look through everything relating to the agencies in question and try to get a feel for the whole discussion before really coming to a decision. You can also search through some of the “black list” sites which try to give information about which agencies are good and which are not. Again, a lot of this can be very subjective. Maybe a man felt that after some time of correspondence his woman should have fallen head over heels in love with him…and she didn’t. They met and things went badly for him, he comes home and posts his story to one of these sites saying this agency scammed him, etc…. Does the site do any kind of investigation before listing this agency as questionable or on its black list? Maybe. Maybe not. Try to find out as much as you can about why the agency is listed. Generally, though, if it is listed someplace like this, you should probably exercise extreme caution in your dealings with them. Just understand that a listing on such a site is not the final word—you should investigate and make your own decision. If you have questions about particular agencies, send me an email. And check the website for updates!

At this point there may be a few (we hope) agencies that are still worth your consideration. If you have not done so already, contact them by telephone. Just see what kind of people they have answering the phones. Just see what kind of “feel” you get from the agency. You should also go back online and do a Google search for each agency. This may reveal some interesting or surprising things.

The above investigation should eliminate most of those agencies that are not above board.

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Russian Marriage Agency – An Easy Way To Have Bigger Choice

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009
Peter Finch asked:

A Marriage agency is good solution for everyone who is looking for romance with Russian women. Professional and creative, matchmakers will arrange everything and you will have just one task: to enjoy your bride.

Russian dating services have enjoyed widespread popularity in the last ten to fifteen years and there are good reasons for this. Russian women are coming from society where values like family and morale are highly appreciated. That makes them transfer these values to their new families too. Dating is very easy on the net.

Unlike old times when romantic paper letters were traveling from East to West and back, today many Russian marriage agencies have settled their web presence and are constantly improving their online services. This is cheap and very flexible solution for foreigners who have decided to try Russian dating.

The fact that you most probably do not speak any foreign language is not a problem. All Russian marriage agencies have websites in English or can arrange your search translator, who will help you understand the local language. They will charge you a small amount of money but you will appreciate it as this will save you hours in a futile search for a Russian bride.

Russians use the Cyrillic alphabet which is impossible to read for a foreigner. The Russian word for Russian marriage agency is…read it as Brachnoe agentstva and you are going to see this phrase very often along with the word….read as “svadba” meaning “wedding”.

There are Russian marriage agencies specialized in certain areas but most of them are trying to cover the huge territory of the largest country in the world. My advice is to contact a few agencies because this allows you to meet various women before making your final choice and start building your relationship.

It is said that in Russia, women exceed the male population by more than 5 percent and in such country with 10 of millions of people, this seemingly small percentage results in many single women looking for someone to share their life with. Having learnt this, you will not be surprised any longer by the many offers that you will get from your Russian marriage agency.

Usually you will be asked to fill in a form outlining your profile and interests. As you are looking for marriage, along with standard questions like full name, age and contact details, it is very likely that you may be asked to send a document proving that you are single.

If you have written anything that could be considered offensive or pornographic, be sure that your profile will be censored or even the Russian marriage agency could refuse to accept it. These agencies take their work really seriously and you will be convinced of this quite soon.

Sending a photo is also an important requirement and it is in your interest to show the best you have – again without sending any nude or offensive pictures. Russian marriage agencies are experienced in this and they will give you guidelines of what will be liked by women. Things such as dress code or general appearance are essential because they show your social status.

Whatever Russian marriage agency you chose, be sure that you have positive attitude towards this. Marriage is serious step and the more you share with your matchmaker, the better is the chance to be disappointed and to find the right woman for you!

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Decided to Visit International Marriage Agency And, Probably, to be Connected With Russian Women?

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009
Palsanich asked:

Decided to visit international marriage agency and, probably, to be connected with the girl from Russia?

I talked to many women. Today I want to share my expirience with you, tell you what really Russian women are, about an acquaintance on the Internet and why it has a future. Nowadays many people make their careers in the modern world.

That why sometimes we have no time to meet in a real life. Very often work takes practically all free time. Exhausting business trips, business meetings, time for private life does not remain at all.

That is when an acquaintances service of the Internet helps. In order to meet someone online the only thing you need to do is to sign up at acquaintances web site, fill the about form and upload some pictures. That’s all! It’s easy as a pie. To chat with the person online you don’t have to worry about what to wear on a date, you don’t need to spend time to go to the cinema, theatre or a museum … All you need is Internet access and some wish.

Internet-acquaintances success mainly depends on good pictures. If they don’t attract attention and don’t make good impression, nobody’s going to read your questionnaire. Your pictures must show all you got rather that just reflect some moments of your life. Realism is inappropriate here. Pictures should not show what you can be for a beloved one.

Have you ever seen how acquaintances site search engine works? Even if you set the strongest search criteria, you’ll get tens or even hundreds of pages with “candidates”. Will you read all of them? I can hardly believe you will. If your profile contains more than one picture a girl will be interested in revising your page, she’ll read it and maybe write you.

Photos should reflect different sides of your appearance, completing each other and making fuller image. It’s sided of an appearance, not aspects of your real life. Pictures giving too different or even conflicting presentation of you will not be met with delight about your many sided person, but rather with perplexity. In this case it’s unlikely that a person who is not familiar with you will get into contact.

Many russian women coming to agency, have already met Russian men, and even have had children from them, but have decided to marry foreigner. Usually they explain it that they like the attitude of the western men to children and to the health more.

Some of them want to find «their» man, a man they will feel well and comfortable with, to find the «significant other». They wish to use all the chances and opportunities available. Their goal is not just leaving abroad but also finding a native soul, and usually they succeed.

There are girls whose goal is just to leave abroad no matter who with. As experience shows, this category is most vulnerable. Other girls pay more attention selecting a man, paying attention to acts, statements, and contradictions in letters but those who only wishes to leave, usually ignores similar “trifles”.

Some girls or women come to marriage agency after heavy loss, divorce or parting with the loved person. They can come right after or aftter a time. For them the reference in agency is the important step, a following step of their life. They understand – everything, that it was dear, remains in the past, and now it is necessary to live the present and to look ahead. They seldom marry foreigners, but letters, calls and man’s attention on a site allow to feel them interest to the present, to start living a full life and to be ready for a new love. Sometimes it flashes with the foreigner on a site, sometimes it is Russian, but at all they are from agency. These women are unknown in a month – two, their eyes will start to be shone, gait becomes flying, a voice – alive and sensual.

At last I would like to tell about girls who are not a success at the Russian men, but for some reason consider, that it will be easy to them to find the man in the West. But also in other countries in the woman man wish to see the partner, the friend, the mistress and simply tremendous woman. the western men do not differ from Russian. They would like to see a person, with whom comfortably and reliably. Therefore to women who do not manage to construct close relations, first of all it is necessary to borrow in itself, to think of the style in appearance and behaviour, to look narrowly at happy pairs and to try to understand, that involves men in wives favourite by them, to look at that heat and pleasure which they give each other.

In the conclusion I would like to repeat the first and the key rule that formulated many years ago: « the Most important person above all – the one who before you ».

If an interlocutor appeared before you, for you all over the world there should be only two – he and you, he – in the center. A column of light is around of him, and outside of this light is anything, emptiness, a gloom. And then you awake to see it, and only it.

The person can be ill-bred and inattentive, silly or aggressive, but the less it is for you, the less it will touch, and irritate, the more talent you have as the interlocutor. The highest is to fall in love with him. At least, try, that the interlocutor has liked you, and when it will occur, do not hide it. Give it signs on sympathy and respect.

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International Dating, it is Medicine for Boredom

Monday, April 27th, 2009
International Agency asked:

There is no better way to change his life as completely change their environment. Each person there are moments in life when all you want to quit and flee, where neither be away from the problems surrounding us, where there is only love and tenderness and understanding the complete life. These thoughts come after feelings about the setbacks and separation from loved ones and probably people not only in these moments, to list all the possible causes of dissatisfaction in life is practically impossible to have every person they and their individual enough.

This article does not try to analyse all possible options suppressed his feelings and the factors shaping likely mention here about this as a signal that it was time to take their destiny into their own hands and try to change it. You can start with the exterior, changing hairstyle, and bought a new dress, but what to do if these new emotions are not long enough?

The next step is to change the social circle, extending his best, make new friends and new interests, possibly met a new love or passion experiencing lighter new man. But where to find new friends, if the world with some then declined to home and work and the ways between them. All people have long to become familiar and do not cause any emotion.

The answer is surprisingly simple to use the online dating service, is the offspring of the twenty-first century, this incredible opportunity to learn, not leaving the house, to communicate without vestiges of the past and the limitations of existing in society (well of course to a reasonable limit). Here you can present themselves prince and princess to come first, you can say about everything and always find someone who you listen, and can share their life experiences do. In the Internet more and more people find friends with similar interests merge in friendly company, and learn something new about life, or that they are interested at this time. Online communication is one of medicine, treating and distracting from the loneliness of life issues. Try to start communicating and I am sure you will like it.

Obviously, one can not do virtual dating if you are looking for life partner, but Internet dating can be used as a prelude to cronyism in real life, in a lengthy communication can understand that for people to communicate with you and whether or not to continue communicating with him . Find a new hobby or a new interlocutor can be as fast as runs flow of electrons, make your request through a worldwide network. But you started to talk and you become easier, you learn something new and interesting about life on other people acquainted with new people and now sit in anticipation of an electronic news from them about their country or place where they live. And if new friends live in another country and speak other languages, it is not a problem now, during the communication you do not notice, many dating sites offer translation services, and free.

So dating has become quite different color, already friends around the world, and if the girlfriend said that heard that somewhere something once, enough to turn to a friend at the other end of the world and find out all the details. Now we are friends with the world, and can be proud of the first-hand information. And distant alien impressed with his kindness and responsiveness.

There are sites marriage agencies, which not only allow to meet and find a bride in Russia or Ukraine, but also help you meet and confirm their feelings arose during the lengthy virtual acquaintances. Dating with Russian women would not only have positive emotions to communicate, learn a lot about other countries, but also allow you to completely change your life, succeeding ordinariness of everyday life at the new experience.

Well, now you are the father of the family, and life became more mainstream, the countdown clock are fortunate, and not before time, a new problem.

Internet communication is indeed a great opportunity to combat loneliness and anguish. Try it and I am sure you like!

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